HOW TO KNOW IF A GIRL LIKES YOU(EPISODE 3)

realloveofafrica

5. If she is very shy, den she probably wont be able 2 talk 2u face-2-face. However, its possible dat she will talk 2u online instead; however, even 4 some girls, this take courage. If she talks 2u online bt shies away wen she sees u, den the odds are she likes u a lot bt is having a hard time showing it face-to-face. Help her by smiling & chatting abt wat's she's doing, etc. 6. Alwaz be urself. If a girl likes a fabricated u, she'll soon scratch beneath dat veneer u've tried 2 use & wont be impressed. If she's nt in2 u the way u're, dont date her. 7. Have hope wen ur girl is shy. She is less likely 2 reveal her desire 4u in open ways; u'll need 2b patient & considerate. Seek 2 bcome friends b4 all else, & take it slowly 4rm there. 8. Do something nice like doing her a favor. If she eventually tries 2do something nice 2u back, this might be a hint dat she likes u. 9. If the girl of ur dreams objects 2ur romantic advances, dont take it personally. A gud relationship starts with some1 connecting well with u.

Sir-Phil

Looks like I 've got someone like that too. Its very fluent on social media but she shys away when we bump into each other. I must confess I like it this way though

Spottykay

if you're connecting through social media and a girl is shy then if you want to show kindness is it through social media

Mr Paul

@Spottykay, what kind of kindness are you talking about?
@reallove, I can sense a truth in No6 of your post: it's bad having relationship with someone you love so much, but doesnt love you a bit.
So many guys make mistake of forcing themselves on girls who dont love them at all; later they come to know that problem are looming over such relationship.

Spottykay

i mean love

Sir-Phil

You meant to say kindness for love?

Mr Paul

Yes, you can start to show love on-net and later graduate to face-to-face love.
And mind you, there is little difference between love and kindness.

Sir-Phil

I know, its a great deal

realloveofafrica

Thanks to you all, kindness is an act of rendering help to someone either male or female, it may be in kind of money or advice to help him or her wen she need it

Mr Paul

While showing Love is an expression of deep, heart-felt and pure affection.
This makes it different from kindness.

Sir-Phil

But some people mistake it for lust!

Mr Paul

Yes, it's true.
When is boy is running after a girl to have s3x with her; he mistakenly calls it 'love', whereas it is 'lust; because he wants to fulfil his fleshly/lustful desire.
Therefore 'Love' is a pure heart-felt affection, while 'Lust' is an unlawful desire towards someone or something.

Sir-Phil

You want to know anyting about love, 1Corinthians 13:1-13 should be your most likely destination.

Mr Paul

Yes, and especially verse 5 as regards lust, because lust is selfish and evil, while love is not.

Sir-Phil

Excatly! Then the conclusion of it can be found in the last versus

Mr Paul

Love is the greatest and it's the fulfilment of all the law !

Spottykay

Mr Paul Has Defined Love And Kindness Twice Before But I'd Like To Ask If A Boy Says He Love One Girl Then That Also Means He Feels Like Having s3x With Her But What If He Doesn't Mean s3x

Sir-Phil

Where in the Bible did they say we must only love the opposite s3x, as in gender? If his love for the girl is geniun i.e Love of God(Agape Love), he does not need to preach it.
Everyone will see by his deeds, if he truly loves the girl.

Spottykay

I Didnt Say The Bible Explained Only Boy And Girls Should Love Each Other

Sir-Phil

Neither is that the onlything I said.

Mr Paul

Love is not s3x and s3x is not love.
Listen, you must love everybody around you with Agape/pure love and when you come into marriage, s3x complement marital love, because without s3x, marital love is not complete.
But a single brother having an urge to have s3x with a girl has developed lust; not love.

HOW TO KNOW IF A GIRL LIKES YOU(EPISODE 3)

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