A Frigid Wife

Mr Paul

What advice can you give to man who has a frigid wife?
Say your opinion; l mean solution to the problem or what can such a man do to solve the problem?

Spottykay

ah you would pray they feel excited

Mr Paul

Just feeling excited cannot solve the problem; that can only preamble around the whole issue.

Sir-Phil

Frigid? I seem to have lost my GST111. Can you break this word ''frigid''

Mr Paul

Being Frigid means not having any s3xual feelings: a woman is said to be frigid if she hates s3x intercourse, even in her matrimonial home.

Sir-Phil

Are you sure such women still exist?

Spottykay

ah then whats the marriage for if she hates s3x

Mr Paul

My brothers, they exist; we meet them on counselling and in many homes; that is one area you need to pray on when praying on marriage: my people, there are some of these married women who admit abstinence from s3x for a year: if their husbands dont touch them for a whole year, they are comfortable.

Sir-Phil

Ooooops! Am gonna leave this topic for married men. Its none of my business coz am not. I dont even know what to say about that, like what it feels for a man to be s3x-starved by his dear wife!

Mr Paul

Ha ha ha ha !
Leaving it for married men?
You can also contribute; anyway that is if you read any book about it; because you cannot say it from practical experience for now, but later.

Sir-Phil

Yes, and I dont think a theoritical sense of it may work out either.

Spottykay

then if the husband has s3x with someone outsides she will feel bad and she caused that to the husband

Mr Paul

@Sir-Phil, you are right.
@Spottykay, women dont think that way; they would cause the test and when the result comes out, they reject it.
If the man has s3x with another woman; the wife can go crazy because of that.

Spottykay

it's also one of wickedness

Mr Paul

Yes, it is; but women who are doing that dont count it as wickedness; it is obvious that we get more frigid women in African than among white people, because of the way we handle s3x here.
For example, it is a taboo to discuss s3x among many young people in Africa, while you can even teach a child of ten years about s3x among white men.

Sir-Phil

I even found it hard to use that word 's3x'. Even now, I can only manage to write it, do not ask me to pronounce it in a speech coz it wont come out of my mouth!

Mr Paul

That is exactly what l'm saying; we are killing the marital future of our girls especially.
I was made to believe in the same way before marriage and l think it is high time we wake up to reality. I'm not saying these youths should expose themselves to immorality, but let them know what they ought to know before marriage.
Do you believe that frigidity has scattered many homes?
Those girls were not taught about s3x before marriage: this is common in christendom.
We overlook important issues because we want to prove spirituality.

Sir-Phil

But such delicate matters should be handled by expirienced and professional psychologists

Spottykay

Do phsycologist look into people's taught or what

Mr Paul

@Sir-phil, Yes, if the matter is not handled by experienced personels, the youths will be led astray.
@Spottykay, they dont see human hearts, but they are trained to detect and solve people's problems, through counselling.

Sir-Phil

They can read your thoughts with you making just a sentence!

Spottykay

alright it's a bit clear

Mr Paul

Pastors, who are trained also(apart what God reveals to them) operate like Psychologists.

A Frigid Wife

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