my sister boyfriend asked me out on a date what shuld i do ?

firstlady

wonders shall never end my sister boy friend asked me out on a date saying he wished to have know me before my sister that he love me so much, ordo this is a guy i admire so much before i got to know about him and my sister relationship,i cant betray my sister because she loves him so much and i dont want to tell my sister so as not to cause trouble. please advice me,what should i do?

Netsela

@firstlady, take your mind far away from the guy and try seeing him as an ordinary friend. By doing so, the case is settled.

firstlady

Do you think that's possible?

Netsela

Is he aware of the fact that you are falling in love with him?

firstlady

Marvisdby:
Is he aware of the fact that you are falling in love with him?

well i can't say am falling in love with him i only admire him and appreciate GODS work in him and that was before i know him to be my sister boyfriend, but he is not aware of it.

Netsela

Well for the fact that he is not aware of it makes it easier for you and him to resist lusting thoughts from dwelling in your hearts. Its best you stop seeing him as a guy you love or admire sooo much like you said. Too much words brings forth lies and exaggerations. Same way, too much admiration in such a case/situation as this brings forth lust and then love. When it has resulted or turned to love, it is very difficult to control so control it now.

Ruty

@Marvisdby u r right

Ruty

since u dot want t tell ur sis,pls avoid being flirty,try to keep ur mind off him,n let him no dat wat he ask is WRONG

maradex02

since u dnt fall in luv wit him tel ur sis. nd trap him

firstlady

Marvisdby:
Well for the fact that he is not aware of it makes it easier for you and him to resist lusting thoughts from dwelling in your hearts. Its best you stop seeing him as a guy you love or admire sooo much like you said. Too much words brings forth lies and exaggerations. Same way, too much admiration in such a case/situation as this brings forth lust and then love. When it has resulted or turned to love, it is very difficult to control so control it now.

ok thanks but do u think we shuld plan and trap him? So as to know if he reali love my sis.

Mr Paul

@firstlady, there is something very important in this issue, its an abomination for him to have s3xual relationship with you when he has had with your sister, because there is no way it would not lead to s3xual relationship at the short run or long run, if you go out with him.

PRINCESSBECKY

Well you have all spoken well but my in addition.
firstlady i will advice you to take off your mind from him and start treating him as your sis boyfriend and not your admire because even if u both are mearnt 2geda it can not longer be sofar he has had an affair with ur sis. Becareful dear.

Mr Paul

PRINCESSBECKY:
Well you have all spoken well but my in addition.
firstlady i will advice you to take off your mind from him and start treating him as your sis boyfriend and not your admire because even if u both are mearnt 2geda it can not longer be sofar he has had an affair with ur sis. Becareful dear.

True Talk.

kraven9

Marvisdby:
Well for the fact that he is not aware of it makes it easier for you and him to resist lusting thoughts from dwelling in your hearts. Its best you stop seeing him as a guy you love or admire sooo much like you said. Too much words brings forth lies and exaggerations. Same way, too much admiration in such a case/situation as this brings forth lust and then love. When it has resulted or turned to love, it is very difficult to control so control it now.

kraven9

Sam7:
@firstlady, there is something very important in this issue, its an abomination for him to have s3xual relationship with you when he has had with your sister, because there is no way it would not lead to s3xual relationship at the short run or long run, if you go out with him.

kraven9

PRINCESSBECKY:
Well you have all spoken well but my in addition.
firstlady i will advice you to take off your mind from him and start treating him as your sis boyfriend and not your admire because even if u both are mearnt 2geda it can not longer be sofar he has had an affair with ur sis. Becareful dear.

kraven9

PRINCESSBECKY:
Well you have all spoken well but my in addition.
firstlady i will advice you to take off your mind from him and start treating him as your sis boyfriend and not your admire because even if u both are mearnt 2geda it can not longer be sofar he has had an affair with ur sis. Becareful dear.

HORIYOMI

RUTY you are right

Odediran Habeebat

Yes u hv 2 trap him 2 know if he reali love ur sis

Sir-Phil

firstlady:
ok thanks but do u think we shuld plan and trap him? So as to know if he reali love my sis.

You dont need to trap him, he has already shown that he is nuts! Remember you said he told you he wished he had known you before your sister. In my own opinion, that guy loves niether you nor your sister, he is a filty cheat and I advise you both stay away from him. Both you and you sister.

Mr Paul

@firstlady, in the process of trying to trap him; he can achieve his goal of sleeping with you; so, be careful, let him go away from both of you.

Sir-Phil

Lolzzzzzzz, nice one there @Sam7, that's what you should really do, you both stay away from him! he doesn't deserve any one of you!!

Jaypwince

Yap dat z a nice one

AYOADE MARVELLOUS

no.dont trap him.he will be ashamed of himself.all u av to do is to tell your sister and tell not to fight the guyi

LILIAN AYO

TAKE UR MIND OF FAR AWAY 4RM D GUY

my sister boyfriend asked me out on a date what shuld i do ?

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