Marvisdby: Is he aware of the fact that you are falling in love with him?
Marvisdby: Well for the fact that he is not aware of it makes it easier for you and him to resist lusting thoughts from dwelling in your hearts. Its best you stop seeing him as a guy you love or admire sooo much like you said. Too much words brings forth lies and exaggerations. Same way, too much admiration in such a case/situation as this brings forth lust and then love. When it has resulted or turned to love, it is very difficult to control so control it now.
PRINCESSBECKY: Well you have all spoken well but my in addition.firstlady i will advice you to take off your mind from him and start treating him as your sis boyfriend and not your admire because even if u both are mearnt 2geda it can not longer be sofar he has had an affair with ur sis. Becareful dear.
Sam7: @firstlady, there is something very important in this issue, its an abomination for him to have s3xual relationship with you when he has had with your sister, because there is no way it would not lead to s3xual relationship at the short run or long run, if you go out with him.
firstlady: ok thanks but do u think we shuld plan and trap him? So as to know if he reali love my sis.
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