AMAZING THINGS!

realloveofafrica

Last week wen i was talking with one of my friend i said "he was surprise wen a girl wooed him". I knw you will to knw how. This girl tells him to open his bible to song of songs ch. 8 vs 1-3, n after he finished reading it she said 'THAT'S WHAT I WANT FROM U'.

Mr Paul

This kind of courage and boldness is uncommon; it may mean that, the girl has a special love for him.

Sir-Phil

Its not too different from saying the girl proposed LOL!

Mr Paul

Yes, you know I said this under a topic which says "can a girl propose to a guy?"
There is nothing new under heaven again; the world is advancing.
And do you think this is wrong?

Sir-Phil

The girl has clearly shown what she feels for the guy, am sure they would make a perfect match!

Mr Paul

I think so as well; but some people think that girls cannot propose; l argued under a topic in the forum that a girl can do so. And to say the truth: we go about with mentality of man-should-propose only in Africa; its not so in foreign countries; both girls and boys are free to woo or propose.

Sir-Phil

You are right. Everyone has the rights whatsoever to express his/herself. Some African cultures deem it a taboo for a woman to propose to a man

Mr Paul

And this African culture has distabilized marital lives of many, who because they are women were dumb-founded when they ought to speak out.
You know what?
As Deeper Life Bible Church believes in chastity in marriage; they allow grown-up ladies to bring the names of the man they want to marry to marriage committee; they believe that as the age is increasing, it may be the lady that would firstly receive vision about the man she wants to marry; therefore, there's that freedom.

Sir-Phil

Its not funny but I feel like laughing out, LOL!!!

Mr Paul

But there must be a reason why you're laughing.
Is it one of my statements?

Sir-Phil

Yes, the former.

Mr Paul

Be specific; which statement?

Sir-Phil

The statement you made before my comments. Deeper life women, bringing lists of men they want? I doesnt make sense to me

Mr Paul

Ok ! the usage of 'women'? I used it in the context that women is used for all females; but l suppose to use the most appropriate word 'single sisters'.
Is that what you are saying?

Sir-Phil

I understand what you meant, just that many would tend to abuse the opportunity

Mr Paul

Oh Oh !
I can get you.
Well, no one bears the consequence for them.
For example, if a sister makes use of the opportunity to marry a wealthy brother or someone, with whom she has planned something secret before, she will face the music.
Hmmmm, my brother, l continue to say that marriage is like black market; only God can make the right choice for you.
I pity those people who manouvre into it, without praying seriously to know the true will of God.

AMAZING THINGS!

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