A WEEK TO YOUR WEDDING DAY,

chrristopher enyioma

A week to your wedding day you ceatch your partner cheating with your best friend what will you do?

Derulo 00

I'll 4giv d lady bt wont marry r again nd will just 4get my bestfrnd like he does nt exist

EL-Nancy

that is d end of solomon grundy bcos it wil stil happen again afta d wedding. 4 my spouse &frend havin d mind to do that

Mr Paul

If such a wedding take place, its just fake wedding, because the mind of the girl about to wed is not with d man she wants to marry, but with her fiance' best friend; if the man go ahead and claiming the word of God, saying he has forgiven her; he will then after know that broken engagement is better than broken marriage: broken courtship is better than broken marriage.

Queenlv

Sam7:
If such a wedding take place, its just fake wedding, because the mind of the girl about to wed is not with d man she wants to marry, but with her fiance' best friend; if the man go ahead and claiming the word of God, saying he has forgiven her; he will then after know that broken engagement is better than broken marriage: broken courtship is better than broken marriage.

sam7, are u saying GOD's word doesnt work ?

Ekundayo383

we will brake up......n leave her 4 my fwend

Mr Paul

@ Queenlv, its even according to God's word by leaving her to go; the Bible explains, for the sake of pre-marital intimacy you can let her go( Matthew. 5:32;); and Joseph had planned to put away Vigin Mary, if not that joseph knew that she was pregnant of the Holy Spirit. ( Matt. 1:18-20). I'm not saying he shd not 4give her, but going wt d wedding is dangerous.

Onyinye2

If God says i shuld still get married 2 him i will.

Queenlv

Sam7:
@ Queenlv, its even according to God's word by leaving her to go; the Bible explains, for the sake of pre-marital intimacy you can let her go( Matthew. 5:32;); and Joseph had planned to put away Vigin Mary, if not that joseph knew that she was pregnant of the Holy Spirit. ( Matt. 1:18-20). I'm not saying he shd not 4give her, but going wt d wedding is dangerous.

sam7, hav u forgetten a woman who was brought to JESUS because she was caught in the very act...was she condemned ? NO! but forgiven...JESUS has died for our sins...there's no sin that can't be forgiven.

Queenlv

Onyinye2:
If God says i shuld still get married 2 him i will.

AYE! dear.

Mr Paul

@ Queenlv,it seems u dont get all have quoted frm d Bible; ds is d mistake many hav made bcos of hot fresh love of d begining,they overlook wht they ought 2 treat seriously at begining of their relatnship; l told a younger brother of mine about a girl he was in courtship with,dt d girl is not d person he can marry;he refused my advice @d begining,but about2 begin planing 4 their weddng, d girl ran 2 another wealthier man & he done wedg wt anther lady now. See, marriage matter is more serious than many other issues;we're talkg about d person u'll live d rest of your life wt. We're taught forgiveness by d Lord Jesus Himself & I myself,l easily forgive pple no mater what they do 2me;u cant use where u quoted frm d bible2 explain ds mater;dt's different;wht of geting HIV AIDS thru unfaithful wife & other risk involved; l know dt d man in questn can still marry dt lady,but he ought 2make necesary research & find out wht caused wht she did b4 consideration;my friend Queenlv,a word is enough 4d wise.

Mr Paul

@ Queenlv, you dont presume or assume in marriage issues: see, l have counselled pple on marriage for years & have seen cases of questions like this by God's Grace and pple have never regreted of following godly counsels on ds issue; my friend Queenlv, l want to tell u dt, pple have followed God's instructions to even marry someone who was a prostitute b4 & l realy support dt, bcos God has 4given her sins and she is no more doing that dirty biz; but God cannot tell his child to go and marry a prostitute who is still in the real biz of prostitution. You can get it clear now; dt man/woman who caught his/her partner with another person can still get marry to him/her, but ought to make necessary research prayerfully before going for the wedding; only if he/she loves him/herself.

Queenlatiphah

the wedding will never hold because if i go ahead wt d wedding such husband can rape my mum.

Pastor Abrahams

Queenlv:
sam7, hav u forgetten a woman who was brought to JESUS because she was caught in the very act...was she condemned ? NO! but forgiven...JESUS has died for our sins...there's no sin that can't be forgiven.

@Queely u have spoken well, as a child of God, we must forgive 4rm our hrt! But where the problem is, is the lady. She has to be able to 4giv herself if she truely regrets the act.

Pastor Abrahams

The wil not only asure her, but also her husband of not goin back to such act after her wedding.

Pastor Abrahams

Queenlv:
AYE! dear.

My thumb's up to that! I totally agree.. U must be able to seek the face of God Almighty; if u indeed have a gud relatnshp wid Him, u'ld hear 4rm Him wat He wants u to do. And wateva instruction He gives to u, jst obey it!

Queenlv

pastor, i really luv that. GOD BLES U

Eshiet

If the girl and the friend in question had the mind to commit these sin,it is clearly reveal what was going in the dark.,capital no to such wedding

Netsela

Nice job well done Queenlv, for indeed you have spoken well.

CHIDIEBERE VICTORY

I will call off d wedding. I cannot marry such a person. How will I even enjoy such a marriage?

EDEMID

if it was anounced by cards/letters it'll b conceled on TV

Liyon77

Hmmm what a pity if dat wedding cont hell is awaiting that family

Ches morcadi

d wedding s cancelled bt d guy shld 4give d grl nd let go 4 his frnd

PRINCESSBECKY

chrristopher enyioma:
A week to your wedding day you ceatch your partner ch€àting with your best friend what will you do?

Hmmm this is a serious issue dat nids God to intervein.

PRINCESSBECKY

In such situation there are many things i will do and the
things are as following.

PRINCESSBECKY

At the moment i will not do anything than to walk away from their presence and live them there atleast dat will save me from doing any silly or funny thing.

PRINCESSBECKY

Firstly,
I will do a research or investigation to know if there has been anything between the two of them before i and my partner met, may be like seeing or be-friending them selves.

PRINCESSBECKY

Secondly,
If their answer is yes then i will ask them if they had anything together in the relationship, the year it all started and the year it lasted for.

PRINCESSBECKY

Thirdly,
If there answer to d 2nd question too is yes then i will ask them what got them seprated, is it me,a fight or they lost contact?
Their answers to this questions will help me to know the next step to take.

PRINCESSBECKY

But i will ask my partner if he stll love my friend and also who he loves most, Me or my friend and is he trully ready to marry me as his wife, if he says yes after his ans i wil ask him to promise me that such thing wil never repeat itself again . If only he can assure me this am sure i will forgive him and continue with d weeding plans.

A WEEK TO YOUR WEDDING DAY,

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