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NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Mr Paul:
July 27, 2013, 07:26:50 AM
The answer to the quetion "who should lead in relatioship?" is simple; l know you would say,the guy should lead.Leading a relationship is different from taking all the responsibilities.Many ladies fail in relationships because of the pride that says guys should run after girls; due to this, many girls dont appreciate their guys enough and dont even care to reply lovely messages from their boyfriends.Do you know that girls also can propose in marriage,but with wisdom and styles.Many ladies are still singles at 35years and above because of this pride.As women love to be loved and appreciated so also are men.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Chris:
July 27, 2013, 07:36:32 AM
True. Sadly, this is Nigerian mentality. In most developed countries (where the girls have sense), when they see someone they like they'll walk up to him and do or say something, even if it's indirect. Unlike here... where they just keep looking and daydreaming like morons.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Ettylxox:
August 03, 2013, 10:24:39 PM
funny u @chris. to my own perspective, i think the ladies most especially are not 2b blame coz in the long run, they will no longer be appreciated. what if she propopes, they get married and an uproar arise btw them?

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Chris:
August 03, 2013, 10:58:03 PM
The end point is that she dates who she wants and not waiting for someone to walk up to her with a diamond ring. Mehn girls daydream a lot.

To all girls reading this: If you see someone you like, do something, don't just stand there and hope they will come to you because they most likely will not. At least say something just to kick off that initial vibe, he will continue from there.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  FUBLESSING:
September 25, 2013, 09:54:07 AM
wat of if d guy did nt love u?

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  BEADY13:
September 25, 2013, 12:37:36 PM
Yes, wat if d guy did nt lov u,wat wl u do?

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Netsela:
September 25, 2013, 07:23:47 PM
Sam7 and Chris, you guyz are just being sidish though correct. Both guyz and girls in Naija possesses the attitude of pride and shyness, so stop posing the blame towards the ladies just because you are men.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  EDEMID1:
September 25, 2013, 09:26:02 PM
not bcos they are men, but when 90% out of 100 r d same its =all.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Mr Paul:
September 25, 2013, 09:47:33 PM
@Marvisdby, Nobody here is siding; we are here to impact lives; or are you trying to defend ladies; look, I dont just post, l post according to experience, being a marriage counsellor for years, with the little knowledge that God gave me (i'm not boasting): things like this have made many young ladies remained as singles for life; is not even for me, because I'm not here to look for wife, I'm married already; let people listen and do what can make their lives move forward, a word is enough for the wise.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Netsela:
September 25, 2013, 10:06:35 PM
Take note of my statement "...though correct". I never said you were wrong but that does not change the fact that it applies to both s3x group-male & female.
 Some men gets married at age 50/60 as a result of same reason.
    An elderly man educated me on life, he made mention of a man who got married at age 65, that was his closest friend as a result of thesame reason.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Netsela:
September 25, 2013, 10:17:27 PM
Experience is the best teacher.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Mr Paul:
September 26, 2013, 05:39:02 AM
@ Marvisdby, but this is common among ladies than men.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  bunmiest:
October 31, 2013, 01:59:14 PM
Girls are afraid because..d guy may tink she flirting

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Mr Paul:
October 31, 2013, 07:45:29 PM
@bunmiest, you have a point, but not all guys can think like that; there are some guys who are even shy of telling you about their feelings; they'd be very happy to see the lady approaching them.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  YOUNG DANIEL1:
October 31, 2013, 10:34:25 PM
Chris
link=topic=760.msg3321#msg3321 date=1375567083:

The end point is that she dates who she wants and not waiting for
someone to walk up to her with a diamond ring. Mehn girls daydream a
lot.

To all girls reading this: If you see someone you like, do something,
don't just stand there and hope they will come to you because they most
likely will not. At least say something just to kick off that initial
vibe, he will continue from there.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  PRINCESSBECKY:
November 29, 2013, 12:50:26 PM
Sam7:
The answer to the quetion "who should lead in relatioship?" is simple; l know you would say,the guy should lead.Leading a relationship is different from taking all the responsibilities.Many ladies fail in relationships because of the pride that says guys should run after girls; due to this, many girls dont appreciate their guys enough and dont even care to reply lovely messages from their boyfriends.Do you know that girls also can propose in marriage,but with wisdom and styles.Many ladies are still singles at 35years and above because of this pride.As women love to be loved and appreciated so also are men.

Hmmmm so u mean..........?

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  PRINCESSBECKY:
November 29, 2013, 12:52:18 PM
Marvisdby:
Sam7 and Chris, you guyz are just being sidish though correct. Both guyz and girls in Naija possesses the attitude of pride and shyness, so stop posing the blame towards the ladies just because you are men.
Thanks o o.

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  PRINCESSBECKY:
November 29, 2013, 01:01:56 PM
FUBLESSING:
wat of if d guy did nt love u?
Exactly,  and disgrace u ?

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Swazzy Lady:
December 11, 2013, 10:30:48 AM
Really serious

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Actionbaby:
December 11, 2013, 12:08:03 PM
U Let Go Of The Guy Princessbecky & Look 4 Another. That U Will Later Settle Down With In Life

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  desmondjames:
December 11, 2013, 11:03:05 PM
is ok

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Precious Emecheta:
December 11, 2013, 11:08:27 PM
what if a girl likes a boy and the boy likes the girl too but do not show it

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Jesu4me Oluwasola:
December 25, 2013, 07:44:51 PM
What would the ladies do even when these guys aren't showing interest in them @ all?

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Swazzy Lady:
January 16, 2014, 09:30:01 PM
Hmmmmmmm

Re: NEGLIGENCE OF LADIES IN RELATIONSHIP(LOVE) WITH GUYS. by  Mrs Toyin:
December 03, 2015, 09:42:01 AM
Its nt a crime if a lady proposes 2 a guy, but wt wisdom as Ruth did in d bible; bt ds has 2 be genuine relatnship whn u hav prayd & sure of d guy.

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