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Sir-Phil
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A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away
from them simply because they refused to
give
them s3x, some are even tempted to give away
their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not
be
the real reason the guys go away. Yes, no
doubt, there are several guys who want s3x,
and
if they don’t get it, they walk away. The
problem
may not be with the virginity or the s3x.
The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible
reveals
that both the wise and foolish were both
virgins,
the other five were not refused from seeing
the
bridegroom because they were virgins or
because they lost their virginity, but because
they were foolish; they were called foolish
because they had no EXTRA OIL.
Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL
(character, good mannerism) to sustain any
relationship. While many brag about their
virginity, that is all they have to offer, they
forget that virginity ends the night after the
wedding, but EXTRA OIL (character) is what
will
keep the marriage going. "Virginity is good
but
its not a character, it cannot substitute or
cover
for your character bankruptcy, get it right!"
If a man ask a lady for s3x and she says NO,
the
man can walk away if what he really wanted
was
s3x and also if that is all he thinks the lady
can
offer him. A man may not come to a lady for
s3x, but along the line he may be tempted to
ask for s3x, if the lady turns him down, the
man
may still stay in the relationship if he sees
other
things that are valuable to him, but if he
doesn’t, he may walk away.
Before you think guys are walking away
because
you are a virgin, look inwardly, do you have
manners? Some ladies who brag about
virginity
are somewhat timid, some impolite,
uncultured
and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with
such
a lady? Some ladies do not have manners,
some
do not have much upstairs, some are not
social,
some are dull, and maybe the best thing they
have is their hips, nice backside, nice breast
and
nice lips, and so when a guy comes because of
all the physical shapes and wants s3x, if he is
turned down, he walks away because there is
nothing else interesting about the lady.
Most men now are even scared of marrying
such
virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to
test
before they discus marriage because many
ladies
who got married as virgins have caused their
husbands to be looking elsewhere because
they
are too naïve on bed. However, you don’t
need
to test to be sure she will be good, you can
know a lady who will be good at home and
bed
by her decent conversation, by the level of
knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest/passion
for knowledge and by God’s leading. There
are
many ladies who are still virgins, they have
great
relationships, they have many friends around
them, you may not even know they are still
virgins unless they tell you. Do not break your
virginity because a guy wants to walk away,
unless you don’t have anything else to offer
in
relationship. It is not all about virginity, work
to build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your
virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA
OIL….“And
beside this, giving all diligence, add to your
faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to
knowledge temperance; and to temperance
patience; and to patience godliness, And to
godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly
kindness charity.” 2 Pet. 1:5-7. DONT GIVE
AWAY YOUR VIGINITY RATHER ADD GOOD
MANNERS TO IT because virginity speaks of
you s3x life but marriage goes beyond s3x.


  By Sirphil


(sirphil)
Spottykay
Spottykay Publisher
This is a good work for Both male and female
Yes, the men can also learn a great deal from this.
(sirphil)
Spottykay
Spottykay Publisher
Yap,especially those ones who loves s3x
Many youths make the mistake of thinking s3x is the ultimate, but it is not. There are a lot more.
(sirphil)
@Sir-phil, Wise words for wise people.
You have stated rightly; may God lead you through and provide the right woman for you.
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Amen!
Thanks dear friend.
(sirphil)
Spottykay
Spottykay Publisher
I also say Amen to Sir phil and mine self



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